Wednesday, April 26, 2017

Book Review: Evermore

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 Imagine your entire life falling apart because you lost your family in a car accident and you were supposed to die with them. In fact, you were halfway to crossing the afterlife bridge with them. Then suddenly, your “soulmate” who has found you for centuries is responsible for you not being able to cross over with them. That’s what happened to a young girl named Evermore, or Ever.

     Evermore by Alyson Noel is an enticing novel that falls in the category of fantasy literature. The possible theme of this book is that ‘Love Heals’. When Ever gets into a battle with Drina and is close to being dead, again, she heals her wounds by remembering how her loving family. Damen informs her that ‘only love heals. Anger, guilt, and fear can only destroy and separate her from her abilities’.

      Ever was on her way to a family vacation when a deer jumped in front of their vehicle. The car spun out of control and she lost her mom and dad, her little sister, Rylie, and their dog, Buttercup. She came out of a coma after the accident and she was rescued by a mysterious man. After the accident, she began developing certain abilities: reading minds, she can see the color of people’s aura, strength, manipulation, and she knows the answers on a test before she even gets it.. Ever was content with wearing hoodies to school and ignoring her peers until he, Damen, moved there. At first she wasn’t all too impressed with them then it was like she could not control it and she fell in love with him. She began to notice that he was different too, and no I don’t mean relationship stereotype of different, I mean psychic different. They fell in love and there is a jealous ex-girlfriend, Drina,  who kills her in every century that her and Damen try to be together. (Read passage from book 296-297)


       I chose this passage because throughout the entire book Ever is faced with issues and she ran from them. She would always hide from them and try to shrug it off. When her parents died, she wore hoodies to school everyday to block out the sounds of anyone making noise to her. In this passage, you can see how she is refraining from running and fleeing in honor of her family and all the lives she’s had in the past. 

This is a review by my 18 year old daughter. She is fantastic! <3 

Tuesday, April 18, 2017

NPR Interview with a Middle School Teacher

Ladies and Gentleman, It’s my pleasure to introduce you to someone who means a lot to me and so many others! Tanicia Peairs or better known to me as Miss Tee! We have been friends for.. well a long time. We met in our early 20’s while she was in college here in Wichita (she is originally from California and has been back there for many years). Miss Tee is a middle school teacher and truly loves what she does and does it well. She makes teaching fun and interesting and tailors her curriculum to individual students because as we all know not all kids learn the same.



She is a gentle, kind, hilarious, intelligent without letting her ego get in the way (she is a natural teacher for sure), beautiful, a great friend, and inspiring. We all could learn so much from her.
So let’s get into this interview so we can hear from her all about her.

NPR: Let’s start with a bit about yourself, basic stuff - age, area you live in, how long have you been teaching, pets, favorite color, and anything else you would like to share with everyone?
MT: Wow! Fantastic introduction! I'm humbled. I'm 35 years old and have been working with children all of my adult life! Though, I've been teaching officially for 6 years. My favorite color, my POWER color, is Purple. I have a pet dog, named Sadie. She is a 9 year old White Labrador/Pit mix and my fur baby!

NPR: When was the first time you realized you wanted to be a teacher? What about for the age group you teach?
MT: Growing up, many people told me that I should be a teacher; however, I wanted to be a psychologist. When I attended Wichita State University in undergrad, Psychology was my major. For four years, I worked with kids to put myself through college, but never wanting to make it a long term career choice. One summer day in 2004, I was working at a summer camp with a group of 1st and 2nd graders. I was helping them facilitate how to build a tent. I didn't do it for them, but I asked guiding questions, offered encouragement, and when they got frustrated asked them to look at it from a different view. After some time, with a lot of teamwork, and perseverance, the kids put together the tent and lifted it upright. The kids let out a loud cheer of excitement and accomplishment! I cheered with them! That moment I knew I wanted to be a teacher. It was my destiny! I knew because I thought to myself, I helped them to realize that they were capable of putting together a tent. For the rest of the summer, the kids played in the tent, read books, and created a safe space… from their own hands. The tent was theirs… and I helped.



NPR: Who is your biggest inspiration? Why?
MT: My biggest inspiration were some of my own teachers that I had growing up. It is not easy for a kid attending 10 schools from Kindergarten through 12th grade. However, I was blessed with amazing teachers and mentors. My sixth grade teacher, Ms. Bonora, was young, strong, intelligent, and straight to the point. She was a strong female figure and personally told me, and made me feel like I could succeed. My high school French teacher, Mme. Stevens, encouraged and nurtured my French language development. She inspired my passion to investigate and embrace other cultures. She brought her kindness and sensitivity to her instruction, and it made her a stronger educator. Mr. Hallford was my AP English teacher my senior year in high school. His was the most challenging class I ever had to take. I had always been an exemplary student, but not in his class. I tended to earn Cs. However, he challenged me to work hard. I earned every A  I received in his class. Every time I did write an exceptional essay, he made sure that I was recognized for it. Mr. Hallford was tough, no nonsense, brutally honest, with a dark sense of humor. Without his concise critique and ability to encourage me to think analytically and critically, I would not have been successful in college and beyond.

NPR: What is the theme song for your life?
MT: “Bittersweet Symphony” by The Verve

NPR: Name one thing that changed you so much that it took you a moment to understand what happened?
MT: The shooting of Michael Brown was something that has changed my world view. I know students are complex. They are capable of benevolence and making mistakes. His death was the catalyst for the “Black Lives Matter” movement, but the biggest take away for me was that I felt responsible to prepare little boys and girls of color for the real world. Teaching became a vehicle for social justice to me. I felt compelled to inspire my students to be open minded to people of various backgrounds, to stand up for those who are being bullied, and to thirst for knowledge and education. In addition to teaching my students math and science, I model behaviors that endeavor to get to know, and love, more people who are unlike themselves.

NPR: Recently you took a solo cruise - how was it given that you have introverted side to you like I do?
MT: Making new friendships, and starting conversations with strangers is something that is very hard for me. Many days, I'd be just fine staying home alone and reading a book or watching my favorite television shows and movie. However, when I was a teenager, I realized that in order to successfully navigate the world and have friends, I needed to be outgoing and positive. Extroversion is a learned behavior for me.
 
Over the years, I have gotten better at appearing to be an extrovert and overruling my introvert nature. I try to set goals and challenges for myself to help me to come out of my shell, talk and get to know new people, and allow them to get to know me. Moving to Wichita, meeting new friends, and creating a support system on my own is one example of challenging my introverted nature. A goal I have for myself is to teach outside of the U.S. and discover a culture very different from my own. I felt a way to challenge myself to meeting that goal would be to go on an international cruise, on my own, and meet new people without having friends or family as a social buffer. I was excited, terrified, and determined to meet new people, embrace new cultures, and just have fun! Mission Accomplished!

NPR: On to the teacher side of you: What is your favorite part of your day at school?
MT: My favorite part of my teaching day is around mid morning to lunch. Usually at this point in the day, I have taught a lesson at least once, had time to improve the lesson, add improvements, then deliver new and improved instruction to my students. I feel like I am in the teacher zone! By mid morning, I have found ways to connect the real world, or pop culture, to the math or science concepts I am teaching for the day, and my students are the most receptive to new information. Once my students and I reach this synergy, that's when class starts getting really fun!

NPR: Which is your favorite subject to teach?
MT: Math and Science. However, I teach my students to view math as a science, or a tool of science. So I suppose it's science.

NPR: How would you describe your teaching style in 3 words?
MT: Entertaining. High-Energy. Unconventional.

NPR: If you could pick just one subject to teach for the rest of your life, what would you choose?
MT: That is tough! At the moment I only teach math, so I'll go with that!

NPR: Have you ever thought about teaching older or younger kids? Maybe even be a professor?
MT: Yes! I think all teachers think about the group they would like to teach based on their teaching style. Middle school students suit me the best. I say this with over 13 years experience working with students from Kindergarten to 7th grade. I don't think I could ever be a professor. I don't have much patience for adults and my teaching style wouldn't work for them.

NPR: What is the one thing that you would change about the public school system to make it better for the kids?
MT: I would change the relationship and trust between parents, teachers, and administration. If we all united with the goal of educating all children to live up to their potential, then we would everything possible to make America’s children succeed.

NPR: What is your 1 year plan? 5 year plan? 10 year plan?
MT: In the next five years, I hope to spend some time teaching overseas. In the next 10-15 years, I hope to complete my administrative credential and move into an education administration position. Perhaps vice principal or principal.

NPR: Any advice for people wanting to go into teaching?
MT: Do it because you love children. Have fun. Otherwise don't waste their time or yours. The world’s children deserve the best teachers and mentors.


NPR: Any last pieces of advice, quotes, words of wisdom that you live by that you’d like to share with everyone?
MT: “Nullius in Verba” This Latin phrase was the motto for the British Royal Society. It translates to “Question Everything” or “Take No One’s Word For It.” This is a phrase I teach my students every year in order to encourage them to stay curious and search for proof. Even if that includes questioning me. The extent of human knowledge is always changing, so do not become complacent or stagnant. Rather, my personal goal, and goal as an educator, is to remain flexible and open to new and expanding pursuits of knowledge.


As you know, I adore you and I hope after this interview everyone will be able to even see a fraction of what I and many others do!
Thank you for your time and I hope we get to check in with you soon to see if those plans are coming to light!

-No Pants Required

Monday, April 10, 2017

Stress

 The month of April is Stress Awareness month. We should all be aware of our stress levels all the time, but sometimes it is extremely hard to keep it underwraps, especially when you have piles and piles of crap mounting and no idea how to handle it. Work, school, kids, relationship, home, life - all triggers in various ways. How do you handle your stress? How do you execute keeping yourself from a complete break down? Here are a few of the ways I handle stress and also de-stress so that I can keep going in as healthy a manner as I can.

  1. I take time alone with no one at all around where I do things I enjoy, such as watching a movie or TV show I love, scrapbooking, reading a good book, writing, slip my earbuds in and listen to music. Simple things - things that help me to just chill.
  2. Spend time with my kids. Sometimes just looking into their faces can remind you that life is much better than it feels at the moment.
  3. Going to a coffee shop and having a drink with a close friend that doesn’t demand you to be the only listener the whole time - that will allow you to vent when you need to.
  4. Call and talk to my grandma - she is so much fun to talk to and loves and supports me literally no matter what I say or do.
  5. Take a drive with a friend that makes me laugh or I go alone.

Sunday, April 2, 2017

NPR Interview with a Adult Novelty Saleswoman







 This time on No Pants Required, we have a good friend of mine who is a hard-working mama, fiance, and business woman, plus on top of that she is super sweet and hilarious to boot!
We delve into her business with a company that is doing wonderful things in the romance area of things.
Please welcome Brandi Grandon!





No Pants Required: Tell us a bit about yourself?
Brandi Grandon: my name is Brandi Grandon.  A 32 year old divorced mom of 3. I am outgoing, strong-willed, and sometimes stubborn.

NPR: What do you do?
Bg: I have my own business,  Cloud 9 Parties, a direct sales venture.  I also work a “9 to 5” job,  managing 2 storage facilities and uhaul dealership.

npr: What drew you to this type of business?
BG: I had been in direct sales with another company for 4 years, after some life changes,  I thought I'd look for a new company in the romance field. I researched and requested information from many companies in the US.  I fell in love with cloud 9 parties’ catalog.  The more information I found out in comparison to other romance companies secured my decision to invest.

NPR: How often do you work when you are doing Cloud 9 parties and sales?
Bg: the time I work in front of the public varies. When I do in-game parties,  I try to limit it to 3 hours from the time I arrive (about 30 prior to the party for setup) to me leaving the house after taking orders.  

When I do a vendor event or a fundraiser. I work anywhere from 2 hrs to 10 hrs.

NPR: Tell us more about Cloud 9 as a company?
BG: Cloud 9 Parties is the dream Crysti Sheldon had,  the CEO of C9P. She had been working in the romance field for years and wanted to create a company that was different and unique to the romance industry.  
Our consultants, no matter your rank in the company,  get personalized service.
Our host program is corporate paid,  so having a party is no expense to me, for the hostess’ s shopping spree is really free.
Cloud 9 customers have special buys available.

NPR: How did you get started with Cloud 9?
BG: I contacted the home office and was set up with kim krenkel director of marketing, 1st person under the CEO of cloud 9 parties. I paid for the largest kit available and had my first party within 2 weeks of ordering my starter kit.  

NPR: What was the first thing that drew you to working with Cloud 9?
BG: the catalog and company theme

NPR: How much time are you able to dedicate to your business each week?
BG: 10-30 hrs per week

NPR: What is your favorite part about having your own business?
BG: the freedom to make extra money when needed.

NPR: Any tips for someone who is looking at joining the Cloud 9 team and how to be successful at it?
BG: use the resources in the back office, use your fellow consultants ideas and tips. Attend conference.

NPR: Where do you see yourself going in the future - with or without being a part of Cloud 9?
BG: successful in all that I pursue

NPR: Any last words you’d like to share with everyone?
BG: be a pineapple, stand tall, wear a crown, & be sweet inside! Check out Cloud 9 Parties @ www.cloud9parties.com/bkendall on fb facebook.com/kansascloud9