Sunday, September 24, 2017

Fall Movies I'd Like to See



So, I have noticed a few movies I’d like to see coming this fall, figured I could share. Maybe you'll see a few you'd like to see too! Please leave me some comments with the movies you'd like to see too!


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Home Again - September 8th. Reese Witherspoon plays Alice Kinney is a 40 year old with 2 daughters and a newly ex-husband. She let’s 3 younger men move in with her: Teddy (Net Wolff), Harry (Pico Alexander), and George (Jon Ruchitsky) - hilarity emanates and she finds herself in a love… pentagon? 











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9/11 - September 8th. 5 people (Charlie Sheen, Gina Gershawn, Luis Guzman, Wood Harris, and Olga Fonda) find themselves trapped in the North World Trade Center tower in an elevator. They come together with the help of a dispatcher (Whoopi Goldberg) to try to escape before the unthinkable happens. 











 
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A Bad Moms Christmas - November 3rd. Mila Kunis, Kristen Bell, and Kathryn Hahn are at it again in this sequel to Bad Moms. This time their own moms are making their lives crazy for the sake of the holidays. 



 
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Girls Trip - Came out in July but I will be watching in the fall. Regina Hall, Tiffany Haddish, Queen Latifah, and Jada Pinkett-Smith are life long BFFs that take a much needed vacation together to Las Vegas. Hijinks and jokes ensue Trust me this is going to make you laugh until you cry. 



 
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All I See is You - October 27th. Blake Lively plays a blind woman who medically regains her sight. Herself and her husband (Jason Clarke) discover disturbing things about themselves. 

Wednesday, September 20, 2017

TV Review: Star

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So, I am fairly picky about the type of shows I like, so you could imagine my surprise when I was practically glued to my computer watching "Star" on Hulu - when I wasn't able to watch it, I was excited to get back to it. 
Queen Latifah plays a role that not many could pull off. Carlotta Brown is a honest, complicated, graceful, hurting, loving, fierce, and God-fearing. She loves fully and is slowly finding her way through how to love her daughter unconditionally. 
Amiyah Scott plays the character of Cotton. She is beautiful, talented, and transgender. Her mom, Carlotta, hasn't fully "accepted" that Cotton is a woman and is making that a physical reality also. Cotton has issues of her own given her careers, drugs, men. 
Jude Demorest plays Star Davis. She has been through so much in her 18 years having spent her first 7 years with a drug addicted mom and then until 18 in the system, where she was raped and also did things just to get by that most people could never even imagine hearing let alone doing. She is just trying to make it as a singer with her sister and friend. 
Brittany O'Grady is playing Simone, Star's sister. They got separated when they were 7 and 5. Simone has been through many tough situations herself, we even see a scene that will have us gasping and hoping it is over soon. She is only 16 and spent her life in the system also. She is shy, detached, trying to figure out how to deal with what has happened to her over the years. 
Ryan Destiny is Alexandra Crane friend of Star and Simone who all 3 form a girl group. She is the daughter of Roland Crane (played by Lenny Kravitz) who is a famous  singer and completely unsupportive of her daughter and Rose Crane (played by Naomi Campbell)  who is a drunk that has depended on Alexandra her whole life to care for her. 
There are so many other really great characters in this show, they really chose an amazing cast. Some really wonderful cameos by some familiar faces - trust me you will love who pops up!
They also deal with some really honest and heartbreaking topics that actually pertain to real life. You get to hear lots of amazing voices and some really hilarious banter, plus some really caring words, and hard to hear comments. 
This show is classified as a drama and I agree the main premise is drama, but it has so much more to it. 
Take the time to check it out, give it at least a few episode chance, you might just get sucked right in too. 
The new season starts Wednesday September 27th, 2017 and it airs on Fox at 9/8c. 

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Friday, September 1, 2017

Fall Bucket List






Fall is my favorite time of year. The colors, the crisp air, and the warm clothes. There are so many things I love doing when the air cools down and we can get out of the house without feeling like we drowning in our own sweat. So here is my fall bucket list for 2017!


  1. Take photos of the beautiful nature.
  2. Sit by a fire of some sort.
  3. Drink a warm beverage on the patio at my coffee shop while I do homework, alone.
  4. Burn a candle that reminds me of fall.
  5. Read a book wrapped in a blanket outside.
  6. Take a walk with my Roxxi girl.
  7. Take a drive around the lake.

Now I don't have life changing goals for fall, but they are things to help me relax and unwind after work or after a day of homework or even just to enjoy doing with the significant other.  Sometimes just taking time for yourself or you and your partner can really make a big difference! Plus, I mean it's fall time! You get to be cozy in sweaters and fuzzy blankets!

Enjoy the season change and take time for yourself!

Sunday, August 27, 2017

TV Review: Madam Secretary



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I have been "binge watching" Madam Secretary the last few weeks (Ok mainly just on the weekends because being an adult with work and school is a time suck, lol.)
I love that they shine a new light on someone in politics. We get to see a made up home life of the Secretary of State.
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 Tea Leoni and Time Daly are fantastic actors and really play their roles well. I have been watching Time Daly since his days on Wings (yes, I am old enough to have watched the first runs of this show.) I have always adored the brooding look on his face constantly which is interesting considering he is still extremely handsome despite the expression. Tea Leoni has the ability to really play any role handed to her with ease. She embodies everything a true actress needs: range, humor, uncommon beauty, style, and so many other many other attributes.
At the time and I believe they are still, Tea and Tim are a couple IRL which I believe shows in their performance. It is extremely hard to see that connection and admiration when it is two people who are lacking some sort of intimacy. It can and has been done, but it can be truly hard. 
Their kids on the show are smart, determined, and handle their parents busy lives well for the most part.
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All of these characters were well laid out and play an important role in this show, they picked a perfect cast to showcase all of that.
I'm not usually one to be attracted to political based shows, but once I started watching it, I have been sucked in. 
It is hard for me to get completely into a show of any sort, I am usually working in my home office while I binge, so I really have to be into a show for it to keep my attention while I work. 
Take time and check this show out, you won't be sorry! Currently 3 seasons are on Netflix and season 4 starts on October 8th, 2017.

Tuesday, August 22, 2017

Bout of Books 20: Updates!

 I will keep all my updates on one post, so come back and look through the week! :)

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Day 1: I finished off 1022 Evergreen Place by Debbie Macomber. I started on page 288 and ended on 366, giving me a total of 78 pages for the day.
I have been slowly reading the Cedar Cove series for a couple years now, they are all so good. I just fall right back in no matter how many books I have read between. They are great books for anyone who enjoy non-fiction stories. They are about romance but about so much else too!





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Day 2: I read a total of 64 pages. I started Always and Forever, Lara Jean by Jenny Han. I am loving the last book in this trilogy. Jenny Han is such a great writer!  I of course read the other 2 books, so I am glad she finishes of Lara Jeans story! If YA is your thing, please check this trilogy out, it is totally worth your time. I have laughed and cried through this series!






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Day 3: I read 62 pages today! 












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Day 4: I read 96 pages today!












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Day 5: I read 104 pages today and finished Always and Forever, Lara Jean by Jenny Han! Such a great book!  









Day 6: I was so busy I didn't get any time to read at all! 

Day 7: I attended a bridal brunch thing and then spent time with my now adult kiddo, so I didn't have anytime to read today. I do have to say I am glad I got as much read as I did this week tho! 

Next Bout of Books will be lots of fun, I am excited for it to come! 

Happy reading!

Sunday, August 20, 2017

My Top 10 Favorite Books!


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Dry by Augusten Burroughs is a true telling of his path to sobriety. It is honest, raw, and he speaks about it openly with the humor and sarcasm he is known for.  Trust me he is not downplaying it by throwing in the humor, he is just trying to convey that it was a time in his life he can now look back on and not let it overwhelm him any longer. He is a wonderful writer/story-teller/memoirist. I have no picked up one of book of his that I didn’t absolutely love and relate to even just in a small way.
This book is number one on my list and has been for about 10 years, because not only that he is an amazing author, but also because finding yourself in more than one book by someone is hard to find, I truly hope he keeps writing, the world would not be the same without his books. 
The Breathing Series by Rebecca Donovan consists of Reason to Breathe, Barely Breathing, and Out of Breath. These books are…. Sad, raw, and very well-written. Rebecca really put herself into these books and made us feel those feelings most of try to hide but know we need to feel so we can grow and evolve.
These books are about a girl who goes through the loss of parents all to be abused by the family member who took her in.
These books will break your heart and also might just help you learn some things about yourself that you might not have even realized you needed to learn.
Rebecca is also the author to another book "What If" which is also a great book! Plus, she is currently working on another series too, which I have to admit I am excited for!
 
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Love, In English by Karina Halle is a story about girl just entering into her adult years and is bored and aimless, especially in her mom's eyes. She takes a job in another country on a temporary basis. At the end of her stint, she meets an older man and they fall in love. There turns out to be problem that might just get in the way.
This book is something I related to in so many ways. Feeling maybe a bit lost and like you are alone in the world trying to navigate at such a young age. No parent helping you figure it all out in a productive way. You also get a little glimpse into what she is up to in the book, Where Sea Meets Sky by Karina Halle.
 
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Second Chance Summer by Morgan Matson is a book that I had to strongest reaction to, more so than almost every other book I have read previously. I cried non-stop for the last 100 pages or more.
This story follows a girl who grew up best friends that she spent her summers with. At some point, her family stopped going to the summer house and then her family realizes they need a go and connect again.
Once they are back, things come out and unravel everything. She finds herself trying to figure out how to navigate the situation.
  

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Defending Jacob by William Landay is a bit slow going but once you realize they are just laying out the groundwork for something gripping and not at all what you expected, you will be so glad you stuck it out.
This book is about a family who have found themselves in the middle of a shit storm. As the steam picks up you really think you know what happened, boy will you be wrong. Just wait.
William Landay is technical writer, but he also has a quiet flare about him that most people could possibly miss. Please take the time keep an eye on that, it is worth it when you see it.
 
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Pieces of Me by Carrigan Richards is a book about a girl who loses everything and is sent to figure it all out in a mental institution. As she navigates all the things she is feeling and going through you see her heartbreak and Carrigan's writing makes you just want to hug this poor girl.
Carrigan Richards is a fresh new-ish author who deserves for people to read everything she writes, because she is dynamic and speaks on topics that so many people deal with every single day.
 


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Don't Breathe a Word by Holly Cupala
 I should say that I tend to lean towards book with a story that I can relate to in some way.  So this was right up my ally. This is about a girl who is in a controlling/mental and emotionally abusive relationship. She runs away from home and her life changes forever from there.
I beg you to read this book, it is one of the best books I have ever read and still keep on my bookshelf to this day.
 


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Hold Still by Nina Lacour is a beautifully, sad story. Nina Lacour has always been able to draw me into her books. You can tell she writes from the heart and really puts all of herself into each and every story she tells. I really don't want to go into any detail about this book, I just want you to please go and get this book and spend some real time engrossing yourself in it.
 




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Three Little Words by Ashley Rhodes-Courter is a newly added book to my top 10! I just finished it earlier this month. It is a memoir of Ashley's time spent in foster care. This book will make you angry while also making you cry at the same time. My grandparents from 1960 to 2015 and my parents from 1993 to around 2007 or so were all foster parents, so we saw all kinds of kiddos who had been through everything you could imagine and even plenty you couldn't imagine. Please take time to read this book, because you get to know what a kid was feeling during the time, along with how she describes it as an adult.
 
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Thirteen Reasons Why by Jay Asher has had some controversy lately because of the show that came out that is based on the book. I read this book a few years before the show came out, so I already knew what it was going to look like for the most part. I personally related to this book in many ways, I have never tried or even truly thought about committing suicide, but I have lost people I deeply cared for. But, I do suffer from anxiety and bouts of depression, so I know what it feels like to feel like your entire life is crumbling around you and you are helpless to do anything about it. This book is well-written and shown from a dual point of view. The main character and the girl who has already passed away. Jay Asher nailed the emotions that one feels in this type of situation.

Now, I love many other books... Many... many other books... But, these ones all spoke to me in an important way, that's why they are on this list currently. This list is always subject to change though.

Hope you guys are having a great summer and I have to admit that I can't wait until fall, cause I am over this humid heat! 

Monday, August 7, 2017

Bout of Books 20!

I love the Bout of Books Read-a-Thon! I have been doing it off and on for a few years now and I am grateful I found it. I sometimes can make it thru a good amount of books, but also sometimes I don't even make it through 1, it just depends on what is going on in my life at that moment.

Anyway, so August 21st is the start date for #20! It is a week long and I promise if you are a reader, please check it out!

Here is the link for it: Bout of Books Site - go and sign up!

My current TBR doe the read-a-thon is as follows:

1. Three Little Words by Ashley Rhodes-Courter
2. The Strangler by William Landay
3. Mystic River by Dennis Lehane
4. Blackout Girl by Jennifer Storm

This is subject to change of course, we are still a couple weeks out!

 The Bout of Books read-a-thon is organized by Amanda Shofner and Kelly @ Reading the Paranormal. It is a week long read-a-thon that begins 12:01am Monday, August 21st and runs through Sunday, August 27th in whatever time zone you are in. Bout of Books is low-pressure. There are challenges, giveaways, and a grand prize, but all of these are completely optional. For all Bout of Books 20 information and updates, be sure to visit the Bout of Books blog. - From the Bout of Books team


Saturday, May 20, 2017

Pride 2017: Love is Love

All my life I have known I was different from most of the other girls or at least that’s how it felt. I liked girls and boys alike and to me there wasn’t anything wrong with it. I can’t remember when I knew others didn’t feel the same way and thought it was wrong for someone to like someone else of the same sex but I do remember knowing it and it being hard to hear when someone used words like “faggot” and “lezzy” regarding someone else when they were making fun of them. I was never personally called those names, but so many others around me were and it hurt me deeply that someone would ever want to hurt someone else just because they don’t understand that being a “faggot” or “lezzy” isn’t an adverse thing.

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There are people who hate most, if not all, people in the LGBTQ community - have called them vile names, brutally beaten, savagely raped, and/or ruthlessly killed them. Others have killed themselves for the bullying they have endured by the hand of someone so ignorant or just plain soulless. All these actions are senseless and shouldn’t be happening to anyone - we should be able to love anyone we want to no matter what their gender is. Love is love no matter what form it takes on - as long as both people are consenting adults.

Next month, in June, is Pride month. The LGBTQ community, in many cities, come together to celebrate who they are without limitations. Many people don’t get this luxury any other time of year - they have to hide who they are at work, hide from their landlords, families, bosses, and others who will hate them for who they are for no reason.

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 I went to my first Pride event in June 2006 in Kansas City, Missouri. I was 25 and had only been out for 6 months (I was lucky enough to have a wonderfully supportive family and friend base, others, sadly, aren’t so lucky.) I went with my two female roommates who had been together for a few years and their female best friend. Their friend and I spent the day flirting and laughing together. A week later we were dating. I was brand new to the city - I had been there one week when Pride started. I went worrying I would have an anxiety attack or I would not enjoy myself. But, I truly had the best time I could have ever expected to have. The people were beautiful, colorful, and happy. Kids;
animals; older people; people my age; men; women; transgendered folks, so many wonderful souls all loving being together. The show was amazing, the vendors were fantastic, and the drag queens and kings were on fucking point.


The next year in 2007, I went with a friend and my broken heart from a fresh break-up. My friend and I just relaxed in lawn chairs and people watched while we sipped our Gatorade in the hot sun. It was the best medicine for my aching heart. Pride has been a place where I started something new and mended my heart after that ended. I wouldn’t change my experiences at my first two Prides, I learned so much about who I was by experiencing it through a different set of eyes both times.

I wish the world could be pride month every month and celebrate not only the beautiful and bright LGBTQ community but all people because we are all individuals and should be celebrating just that.

So next month, find a way to a Pride event near you even if you don’t fall into any category within the LGBTQ label, our community is in need of allies always. You might be surprised to find out that you will be surrounded by uplifting and hilarious people who just want to be themselves without restrictions or hate being cast on them.


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Friday, May 12, 2017

Your Anxiety and You

FYI: I want to start this out by saying I am not a health care professional, I am only stating the things I have learned because I suffer from anxiety, from the research I have done over the years, and what I have learned from doctors.


           I myself have lived with Anxiety for a long time [as far back as I can remember]. When I was younger there wasn’t much for sources, information, or help to tame the beast that I am wasn’t even totally sure what was happening to me. I thought I was alone in fight to overcome whatever was happening to me. Boy, was I wrong. According to ADAA.org 18% or 40 million adult Americans are affected by some form of Anxiety.
          Anxiety is a mental health disorder characterized by feelings of worry, anxiety, or fears that are strong enough to interfere with one’s daily activities. Examples of anxiety disorders are: panic attacks, OCD [obsessive compulsive disorder], and PTSD [post-traumatic stress disorder].
          Anxiety develops from complex risk factors, including: genetics, brain chemistry, personality, and/or life events. Symptoms might include stress that’s out of proportion to the impact of the event, inability to set aside a worry, restlessness. Treatments could possible be: counseling and/or medications [usually anti-depressants].
Here are a few of the signs that can help you to know if you should start seeking assistance in helping to work with your Anxiety.


  • Whole Body:
    • Fatigue
    • Restlessness
    • Sweating
    • Trembling
    • Nausea
  • Behavioral:
    • Hyper vigilance
    • Irritability
    • Insomnia
  • Cognitive:
    • Racing thoughts
    • Unwanted thoughts
    • Sensation of an abnormal heartbeat
    • Poor concentration
    • Feeling of impending doom
    • Fear
    • Excessive worry

Ages Affected

Getting Help

             Please never be afraid to ask for help! If that means getting your parents, partner, other relatives, a specialist, doctor, clergyman, anyone that you trust and can help to give you some sort of guidance even if that just means comforting you and helping you find someone better qualified to help you find your way though your anxiety. Then, start with a few of these tips to help yourself to get ahead of it, also this helps you to learn to be the one in control of it.

  • Self Care
    • Avoid Alcohol
      • May be harmful and aggravate certain conditions
    • Reduce Caffeine Intake
      • Reduces risk of aggravating certain conditions
    • Physical Exercise
      • Aerobics activity for 20-30 minutes 5 days a week improves cardiovascular health.
      • If injured pursuing an activity that avoids the injured muscle group or joint can help maintain physical function while recovering.
    • Stress Management
      • Pursuing an enjoyable activity or verbalizing frustration to reduce stress and improve mental health.
    • Quitting Tobacco
      • Quitting any type of tobacco products can help keep unnecessary chemicals out of your body that may alter you in any fashion.
    • Relaxation Techniques
      • Deep breathing, meditation, yoga, rhythmic exercise, and other activities that reduce symptoms of stress and triggers.
    • Healthy Diet
      • A diet that provides essential nutrients and adequate calories, while avoiding excess sugar, carbs, and fatty foods.
    • Therapies
      • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
        • A talk therapy focused on modifying negative thoughts, behaviors, and emotional responses associated with psychological distress
      • Meditation
        • Improves mental health and helps relaxation
      • Psychotherapy
        • Treatment of mental or behavioral disorders through talk therapy


Specialists

               Finding someone properly qualified to help you properly can seem like a task – but I promise you will find someone wonderful – DO NOT SETTLE for someone that isn’t a proper fit. If you don’t feel a bit of a professional connection with them, then find someone else! Don’t feel bad about it or like you might have failed or something because that is not true at all. You have to make sure it is a good situation for yourself so that you can come out the other side of all of this better than you went in. Anxiety is nothing to laugh at - it can take over your entire world if you let it. Reaching out for help is the best way to figure out how to work with your anxiety in a positive way to stop the growth of the negative aspects. Do some research online for a doctor who has a good success rate with people who live with Anxiety.


  • Clinical Psychologist
    • Treats mental disorders primarily with talk therapy.
  • Psychiatrist
    • Treats mental disorders primarily with medications.
  • PCP [Primary Care Provider]
    • Prevents, diagnoses, and treats diseases.

 Resource:

  • Text: "connect" to 741741
    • For people of all ages
    • Things they can help you with:
      • Stress
      • Anxiety
      • Suicidal Thoughts
      • Self-harming
      • Depression
      • Grief
      • Eating Disorders
      • Physical/Emotional/Sexual/Mental Abuse
      • Isolation/Loneliness
      • Relationship Issues
      • Bullying

It Is NOT Curable, But It Can Be Manageable


            There is no quick fix cure for anxiety, but with the right treatment for you it can be manageable. I have suffered for a long time - I don't take any meds and never have [that's not to say it won't help someone else] - but having someone to talk to has helped me a lot - and in time I will keep getting better - not that it will be an easy task, but it has been and will continue to be worth it.
             I know many people are nervous or against getting involved with some sort of doctor but trust me, they can be a great source of information and helpful in getting yourself to a much more useful place inside your own head so you can function better in your day to day life.


Helping Your Loved Ones Understand Your Anxiety


            Give those closest to you the info you have learned about anxiety and as you learn the things that help to calm your anxiety. Share that info with the people in your life. Things that have helped me when my anxiety is high or during an anxiety attack (these may not help you) are:

  • Just hug me - I just need to know I'm not alone - I don't need questions or even talking, just physical contact.
  • Making it known that just because an everyday activity is easy for them doesn't mean it's easy for me.
  • Just because I may seem calm or even happy doesn't mean my mind isn't racing and I'm not glancing all around because I have to know who is around me at all times.
  • Being on time for things that you've made plans for, it is hard for my anxiety and me when someone is late. It is even harder for me when I am running late for things - as rarely as that happens.
  • Learning what my key signs are right before I have an anxiety attack is important to my coping skills.
    • Getting really quiet
    • Can't stop from looking all over
    • My breathing can get a bit labored [not hyperventilating though]


Things Not to Say to Someone With Anxiety or During an Anxiety Attack

  • "You haven't always been this anxious"
  • "You’re embarrassing me/yourself"
  • "Why are you being so difficult?"
  • "You are faking"
  • "Why are you acting like a psycho/being crazy?"


Things to Remember When Someone You Love is Suffering From Anxiety

  • Help us to remember that we are still normal.
  • Don't create unnecessary suspense/drama/stress to the situation
  • Invite me to do "nothing" with you:
    • Watch TV/a Movie
    • Hang out with me quietly while we do our own things
    • Take me on a drive with loud happy music
  • Understand that sometimes we just need some space
  • Just listen openly. DO NOT offer advice or try to hurry them along or try to shut them up or watch TV or play on your devices… Just Listen.
  • The main thing to remember is act like the person you would want if you suffered from anxiety.


          Anxiety can be scary and can make you feel very alone even in a room full of your favorite people - let them know you are there for them in the way that is the most comforting for them, even if it isn't the most comfortable for you.

          There is no one people exactly like another, we all have things we live with that aren’t exactly how we wish it were. Most of us are doing the very best we can to stumble our way through the dark so that we can come out the other side resembling something of a “normal” human being. Cut people some slack, none of us are perfect.

Thursday, May 4, 2017

NPR Interview with Stationery & Beyond Entrepreneurs

This time on No Pants Required we have a pair of successful creatives and business folks from the beautiful state of Michigan. They are the face behind Oh Hello Stationery Co. - they create beautiful and functional stickers, enamel pins, washi tape, greeting cards, mugs, and so much more!

They have carved out their own little corner of the planner world, which is growing bigger and better all the time. They were recently mentioned by a big name in the planner world *coughErinCondrencough* at PlannerCon 2017 in San Francisco at the beginning of March and in just seeing their emotional reaction you know that are extremely appreciative of what they have and who helped them get there.

Without further ado here are the sweet and funny Kayla and Alex!


NPR: Let’s start with how old both of you are?

A: I am 26 as of Feb
K: I turn 25 in June


NPR: What is the theme song for your life?

A: Oh man, one song? I listen to music all day and it changes, right now it is Bruno Mars 24k and That’s what I like. I get in such a good mood when they come on.
K: Anything by the Wheepies. I realize it’s pretty mellow, but I can listen to them forever.


NPR: How did you meet?

A: We met through a former best friend. The short story is they broke up and we ended up dating by almost accident. I was studying abroad and we just started chatting online. By them time i got home 9 months later i realized I really like this girl and I couldn’t even remember what she really looked like.
K: Honestly he found me super annoying when we first started talking!


NPR: You guys got married recently, CONGRATS! How is married life treating you?

A: LOVING IT. I still can’t believe that I conned her into it. I mean have you seen my wife, she is smart, funny, infuriating in all the right ways and not to mention adorable.
K: It’s seriously amazing. I love Alex more now than ever before.

NPR: So let’s get into the planner side of things! When was the first time you realized that what you were creating could be marketed to others?

A: That is a Kayla Question as I like to say.
K: Honestly our business started off with greeting cards and we kind of accidentally fell into doing stickers. I’ve always wanted to have a stationery shop.


NPR: What steps did you take to start making that happen?

A: Honestly Kayla started this thing and I come home one day and she’s hand cutting some stickers and putting them into little bags. It took her two hours for a $4 bag of stickers that we never sold. I knew that was crazy so I have a little bonus money I saved up and bought her a silhouette. Fast forward to the business making more money than me at my job and i hated my job so I went to keep the company alive while i looked for a better job.
K: We constantly are looking for the next way to expand and grow.

NPR: I have heard in your videos on your YouTube channel Above The Telescope that you, Alex are a business major - how has that worked in your favor through the process of getting Oh Hello Co. started?

A: To be honest, not a lick. I actually have two degrees with three focuses (entrepreneurship, business management with a focus on marketing, and finance, management) and not one of those classes prepped me for this. Here is why I am not lying - all those classes (including the entrepreneurship) all talked about handling 100+million companies. There is this gap between nothing and 100 million that never was explained or even touched upon. Our first year our taxes nearly ruined us, we just had to learn fast.
K: I totally agree with Alex. Anything I learned in college didn’t prepare me at all for this kind of work.
NPR: How many hours a day do you work on a typical day? Printing? Packaging? Creating the images? The business side of things?

A: I would say about 12 hours for me but that’s including lunch and dinner. So probably 10 hours a day. And we try to take a day a week off. The thing is that sounds like a ton but if I get sick of printing and cutting, I go design and it’s a totally different passion. For me, I am lucky that this business brings nearly all my passions into one thing.
K: There are so many aspects of Oh, Hello it never feels like we’re doing anything for long. Plus I LOVE working!

NPR: In a vlog it was mentioned that you both make all custom content from the designs to products themselves do you think that gives you a leg up in this corner of the market you are in?

A: It is both our greatest value and weakest point. We add value by making sure we are the ONLY ones who have these stickers and we are able to do things for our customers who just buys clip art never could. Like our dog and cat stickers are made from photos of our Helloigans pets, you can’t do that if you bought the art. The other side is I can only do so much, when making designs I might spend hours on something that is a flop and I can only make one a week. Where if you buy the art you can make a new kit a day. And you have a ton more variety as well, but then anyone else out there can find where you buy your art from a reverse google search and now you have nothing special. So again, double edge sword.


NPR: Do you listen to music when you are creating content? If so, what is your workflow playlist?

A: OH YEA, I go through moods. Right now i’m on this lo-fi hip hop kick (link https://soundcloud.com/xmittens) and it’s great for grinding out work. But I have to throw in different music all day to counteract my moods, so if I get tired i’m pumping Bruno Mars. Then if I need to just do work that i’m not really into I turn on girl talk on Pandora because it’s upbeat and catchy. But a few months ago it was all Simon and Garfunkle. So it bounces around.
K: I actually work in silence most of the time!


NPR: What is your go to snack and drink when you are working?

A: Coffffffeeeeeeee obvs, then water and for snackage its goldfish or nuts if we splurged that week and got some. I would say the flamin hot LIMON cheetos but they stain your hands red like Macbeth and I try not to get that all over stickers.
K: I’m weirdly obsessed with Nutty Butter bars. It’s an addiction.

NPR: What do you do to wind down after a long day of work?

A: I pour two fingers of rum and play overwatch for a few hours. I stream my playing but have literally zero followers and for good reason - I am garbage. But I play almost every day and am always willing to play with people!
K: I don’t really wind down hahaha. Usually my “breaks” are working on blog posts or videos, and that’s still kind of part of my job!
 



NPR: Do you plan to attend Planner Con in 2018?

A: You know it! It was a blast and we are thinking of even doing a similar event in the midwest if we can figure out how to do it!
K: We want to have a booth and be even more involved than we were last year. It was so amazing.


NPR: Where are you looking to take your business over the next couple of years?

A: I think we need to expand into other products and get into retail stores. The stickers market was not here 10 years ago and that means it might not be here in 10 years. For us, we need to find other ways to stabilize ourselves. I mean one day I wouldn’t mind a child but not if we can’t feed it! But currently, I feel really good about the future, and also hope the stickers stay around for 100+ years!
K: I have my eye on craft shows. I think a lot of what we’re getting into would do really well in that market.


NPR: Any new products on the horizon we should be looking forward to?

A: Oh Mayne, so many! We are looking at socks, coasters, koozies, flip flops, clip boards, and shirts. We are even working with some local cut and sew shops to see if we can make leggings and/or placemats. The hard part is that we can get you hand-made unique placemats but we want to compete on price and quality. Having someone hand sew placemats can increase the cost a few bucks and when you can run to walmart and snag placemats that are cheaper and slightly less quality it’s scary. We are doing all this work and it might be something no one wants.
K: I’m most excited for sticker organizers. A collection of stickers all in one place at a fantastic discount. So pumped.

NPR: Any advice for someone else looking to break into a creative business such as what you do?

A: Hope I can swear. START RIGHT FUCKING NOW. I had a friend over last week that makes me look like i’m eating glue compared to how good he is at making art. He works construction and does nothing with that talent. His excuse was lack of knowledge. ARE YOU KIDDING ME! If you make art and that is what it is, ART. I don’t make clipart I make mini portraits of my life. Anyway if you make things and are scared or don’t know how, email me at ohhellostationery@gmail.com We can either help you getstarted or even help make some items with your art on it for you to sell. To be clear I am not going to do the work for you but I can help you not waste time going down the wrong roads. Sorry for the rant, huge pet peeve of mine are people who undervalue
themselves. 7 billion people on spaceship earth and there is a percentage that will think what you do is beautiful or meaningful and want to have that in their lives. The hard part is finding them, i’ll admit that, but they are out there waiting silently for you to come into their lives.

K: Alex gets passionate about this sort of thing so I’ll keep mine short. It doesn’t happen overnight. I have that quote as my desktop image. You aren’t going to become famous and rich with just a few days work. You have to keep at it no matter what.


NPR: Is there anything else that you would like to share with our audience that I might not have mentioned previous to now?

A: Thank you for allowing us to be interviewed it was a really good 
​​interview in my opinion. I hope anyone who spent the time to read about us got something from it. I also would like to say thank you to the many people who do support us in what we do, we have one of the most amazing group of people who call themselves Helloigans and support us. I honestly can’t think about it too hard or i start to tear up (which is the manly way of saying crying) because I live a life I don’t deserve.
K: Thank you so much for interviewing us!!
Thank you both for your time, Alex & Kayla! I’m so glad we got learn more about you and Oh Hello Stationery Co.

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