Tuesday, November 7, 2017

Days 4-6 of NaNoWriMo

So I have really been enjoying NaNoWriMo! I am just a little bit above my goal so far.
Day 4: I wrote 1810 words. I struggled a bit this day to get my mind into what I was writing, it will be deeply edited when I am done with the book, lol. I love what I was writing about, I just need it to be more and better.
Day 5: I wrote 1544 words. I didn't struggle as bad, but still a little. I think it was mainly cause I didn't get near enough sleep, so I was tired.
Day 6: I wrote 488 words. It was a busy day, so I didn't get much written, but I am glad I did get some at least.
This gives me a total of 3842 for these 3 days and a grand total of 8846 for the last 6 days.

My goal was to be at 10,000 by the end of day 6, but at least I am close and should be able to make up the loss soon.

Happy writing!

Friday, November 3, 2017

Days 1-3 of NaNoWriMo

 So, here we are on day 3 already. I have to admit, I have found it easier to write than I originally thought it would be. Though I am writing about myself and I am not really putting it in order or anything. I plan to do all that once I've gotten it all down that I want to include.
On day 1 I wrote 747 words, it didn't meet my goal for the day but it was a good start. I got some very important pieces of information down and that is truly what matters anyway.
Day 2 I wrote 2,843 words, which brought me over the goal for the day and brought me over the goal for 2 days of writing. It surprisingly only took me a total of 2 hours. An hour in the morning and an hour in the afternoon. At the end of the day, I realized I needed to write down all of the stories I wanted to include, so I have a long list now.
It is still only almost lunchtime on day 3, but I have already written 1,414 words. The list really has helped me to get it all down that I want to. I remember certain stories while I'm writing other stories, so it leads to adding to the list.

This is a new thing for me, writing during NaNoWriMo and honestly really getting so much information out about my life. Stories I thought I would never share with anyone ever, let alone considering sharing it in a memoir.

If you are considering writing a memoir. Do so. Truly just do it. I feel so much better because of it. Lots of emotions come out, but you know what that's ok - how else do we heal and move forward? Well at least for me it is to cry about it and let all that toxic shit out.

If you are already doing NaNoWriMo well good! I am glad you are sharing in this experience with me!

Happy NaNoWriMo everyone! <3

Monday, October 30, 2017

NaNoWriMo 2017



Ever heard of NaNoWriMo? If you haven't I really hope you look into it if you are thinking about writing a novel.

NaNoWriMo stands for National Novel Writing Month. It is a month-long writing spree for us with a word count of at least 50,000. Now don't let that intimidate you, it is 1,667 words a day, surprisingly that isn't as much as you'd think.

Take some time and check out NaNoWriMo's website! You can sign up for a free account so you can publicly show how much you are writing each day, find some like-minded people you can connect with and learn from as well as give some advise you might have, there is a shop to buy some great swag to show off your NaNoWriMo pride, find local places that are holding "write-ins" where you go and hang out for a few hours with others doing the same thing, and so much more.

This is my first year to join in the fun and I am truly excited to do so! I hope to see some of joining in also! If you do sign up on their website, please, by all means, leave me a comment and I will gladly connect with you on there and we can be NaNoWriMo buddies! <3

Sunday, September 24, 2017

Fall Movies I'd Like to See



So, I have noticed a few movies I’d like to see coming this fall, figured I could share. Maybe you'll see a few you'd like to see too! Please leave me some comments with the movies you'd like to see too!


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Home Again - September 8th. Reese Witherspoon plays Alice Kinney is a 40 year old with 2 daughters and a newly ex-husband. She let’s 3 younger men move in with her: Teddy (Net Wolff), Harry (Pico Alexander), and George (Jon Ruchitsky) - hilarity emanates and she finds herself in a love… pentagon? 











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9/11 - September 8th. 5 people (Charlie Sheen, Gina Gershawn, Luis Guzman, Wood Harris, and Olga Fonda) find themselves trapped in the North World Trade Center tower in an elevator. They come together with the help of a dispatcher (Whoopi Goldberg) to try to escape before the unthinkable happens. 











 
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A Bad Moms Christmas - November 3rd. Mila Kunis, Kristen Bell, and Kathryn Hahn are at it again in this sequel to Bad Moms. This time their own moms are making their lives crazy for the sake of the holidays. 



 
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Girls Trip - Came out in July but I will be watching in the fall. Regina Hall, Tiffany Haddish, Queen Latifah, and Jada Pinkett-Smith are life long BFFs that take a much needed vacation together to Las Vegas. Hijinks and jokes ensue Trust me this is going to make you laugh until you cry. 



 
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All I See is You - October 27th. Blake Lively plays a blind woman who medically regains her sight. Herself and her husband (Jason Clarke) discover disturbing things about themselves. 

Wednesday, September 20, 2017

TV Review: Star

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So, I am fairly picky about the type of shows I like, so you could imagine my surprise when I was practically glued to my computer watching "Star" on Hulu - when I wasn't able to watch it, I was excited to get back to it. 
Queen Latifah plays a role that not many could pull off. Carlotta Brown is a honest, complicated, graceful, hurting, loving, fierce, and God-fearing. She loves fully and is slowly finding her way through how to love her daughter unconditionally. 
Amiyah Scott plays the character of Cotton. She is beautiful, talented, and transgender. Her mom, Carlotta, hasn't fully "accepted" that Cotton is a woman and is making that a physical reality also. Cotton has issues of her own given her careers, drugs, men. 
Jude Demorest plays Star Davis. She has been through so much in her 18 years having spent her first 7 years with a drug addicted mom and then until 18 in the system, where she was raped and also did things just to get by that most people could never even imagine hearing let alone doing. She is just trying to make it as a singer with her sister and friend. 
Brittany O'Grady is playing Simone, Star's sister. They got separated when they were 7 and 5. Simone has been through many tough situations herself, we even see a scene that will have us gasping and hoping it is over soon. She is only 16 and spent her life in the system also. She is shy, detached, trying to figure out how to deal with what has happened to her over the years. 
Ryan Destiny is Alexandra Crane friend of Star and Simone who all 3 form a girl group. She is the daughter of Roland Crane (played by Lenny Kravitz) who is a famous  singer and completely unsupportive of her daughter and Rose Crane (played by Naomi Campbell)  who is a drunk that has depended on Alexandra her whole life to care for her. 
There are so many other really great characters in this show, they really chose an amazing cast. Some really wonderful cameos by some familiar faces - trust me you will love who pops up!
They also deal with some really honest and heartbreaking topics that actually pertain to real life. You get to hear lots of amazing voices and some really hilarious banter, plus some really caring words, and hard to hear comments. 
This show is classified as a drama and I agree the main premise is drama, but it has so much more to it. 
Take the time to check it out, give it at least a few episode chance, you might just get sucked right in too. 
The new season starts Wednesday September 27th, 2017 and it airs on Fox at 9/8c. 

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Friday, September 1, 2017

Fall Bucket List






Fall is my favorite time of year. The colors, the crisp air, and the warm clothes. There are so many things I love doing when the air cools down and we can get out of the house without feeling like we drowning in our own sweat. So here is my fall bucket list for 2017!


  1. Take photos of the beautiful nature.
  2. Sit by a fire of some sort.
  3. Drink a warm beverage on the patio at my coffee shop while I do homework, alone.
  4. Burn a candle that reminds me of fall.
  5. Read a book wrapped in a blanket outside.
  6. Take a walk with my Roxxi girl.
  7. Take a drive around the lake.

Now I don't have life changing goals for fall, but they are things to help me relax and unwind after work or after a day of homework or even just to enjoy doing with the significant other.  Sometimes just taking time for yourself or you and your partner can really make a big difference! Plus, I mean it's fall time! You get to be cozy in sweaters and fuzzy blankets!

Enjoy the season change and take time for yourself!

Sunday, August 27, 2017

TV Review: Madam Secretary



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I have been "binge watching" Madam Secretary the last few weeks (Ok mainly just on the weekends because being an adult with work and school is a time suck, lol.)
I love that they shine a new light on someone in politics. We get to see a made up home life of the Secretary of State.
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 Tea Leoni and Time Daly are fantastic actors and really play their roles well. I have been watching Time Daly since his days on Wings (yes, I am old enough to have watched the first runs of this show.) I have always adored the brooding look on his face constantly which is interesting considering he is still extremely handsome despite the expression. Tea Leoni has the ability to really play any role handed to her with ease. She embodies everything a true actress needs: range, humor, uncommon beauty, style, and so many other many other attributes.
At the time and I believe they are still, Tea and Tim are a couple IRL which I believe shows in their performance. It is extremely hard to see that connection and admiration when it is two people who are lacking some sort of intimacy. It can and has been done, but it can be truly hard. 
Their kids on the show are smart, determined, and handle their parents busy lives well for the most part.
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All of these characters were well laid out and play an important role in this show, they picked a perfect cast to showcase all of that.
I'm not usually one to be attracted to political based shows, but once I started watching it, I have been sucked in. 
It is hard for me to get completely into a show of any sort, I am usually working in my home office while I binge, so I really have to be into a show for it to keep my attention while I work. 
Take time and check this show out, you won't be sorry! Currently 3 seasons are on Netflix and season 4 starts on October 8th, 2017.

Tuesday, August 22, 2017

Bout of Books 20: Updates!

 I will keep all my updates on one post, so come back and look through the week! :)

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Day 1: I finished off 1022 Evergreen Place by Debbie Macomber. I started on page 288 and ended on 366, giving me a total of 78 pages for the day.
I have been slowly reading the Cedar Cove series for a couple years now, they are all so good. I just fall right back in no matter how many books I have read between. They are great books for anyone who enjoy non-fiction stories. They are about romance but about so much else too!





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Day 2: I read a total of 64 pages. I started Always and Forever, Lara Jean by Jenny Han. I am loving the last book in this trilogy. Jenny Han is such a great writer!  I of course read the other 2 books, so I am glad she finishes of Lara Jeans story! If YA is your thing, please check this trilogy out, it is totally worth your time. I have laughed and cried through this series!






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Day 3: I read 62 pages today! 












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Day 4: I read 96 pages today!












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Day 5: I read 104 pages today and finished Always and Forever, Lara Jean by Jenny Han! Such a great book!  









Day 6: I was so busy I didn't get any time to read at all! 

Day 7: I attended a bridal brunch thing and then spent time with my now adult kiddo, so I didn't have anytime to read today. I do have to say I am glad I got as much read as I did this week tho! 

Next Bout of Books will be lots of fun, I am excited for it to come! 

Happy reading!

Sunday, August 20, 2017

My Top 10 Favorite Books!


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Dry by Augusten Burroughs is a true telling of his path to sobriety. It is honest, raw, and he speaks about it openly with the humor and sarcasm he is known for.  Trust me he is not downplaying it by throwing in the humor, he is just trying to convey that it was a time in his life he can now look back on and not let it overwhelm him any longer. He is a wonderful writer/story-teller/memoirist. I have no picked up one of book of his that I didn’t absolutely love and relate to even just in a small way.
This book is number one on my list and has been for about 10 years, because not only that he is an amazing author, but also because finding yourself in more than one book by someone is hard to find, I truly hope he keeps writing, the world would not be the same without his books. 
The Breathing Series by Rebecca Donovan consists of Reason to Breathe, Barely Breathing, and Out of Breath. These books are…. Sad, raw, and very well-written. Rebecca really put herself into these books and made us feel those feelings most of try to hide but know we need to feel so we can grow and evolve.
These books are about a girl who goes through the loss of parents all to be abused by the family member who took her in.
These books will break your heart and also might just help you learn some things about yourself that you might not have even realized you needed to learn.
Rebecca is also the author to another book "What If" which is also a great book! Plus, she is currently working on another series too, which I have to admit I am excited for!
 
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Love, In English by Karina Halle is a story about girl just entering into her adult years and is bored and aimless, especially in her mom's eyes. She takes a job in another country on a temporary basis. At the end of her stint, she meets an older man and they fall in love. There turns out to be problem that might just get in the way.
This book is something I related to in so many ways. Feeling maybe a bit lost and like you are alone in the world trying to navigate at such a young age. No parent helping you figure it all out in a productive way. You also get a little glimpse into what she is up to in the book, Where Sea Meets Sky by Karina Halle.
 
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Second Chance Summer by Morgan Matson is a book that I had to strongest reaction to, more so than almost every other book I have read previously. I cried non-stop for the last 100 pages or more.
This story follows a girl who grew up best friends that she spent her summers with. At some point, her family stopped going to the summer house and then her family realizes they need a go and connect again.
Once they are back, things come out and unravel everything. She finds herself trying to figure out how to navigate the situation.
  

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Defending Jacob by William Landay is a bit slow going but once you realize they are just laying out the groundwork for something gripping and not at all what you expected, you will be so glad you stuck it out.
This book is about a family who have found themselves in the middle of a shit storm. As the steam picks up you really think you know what happened, boy will you be wrong. Just wait.
William Landay is technical writer, but he also has a quiet flare about him that most people could possibly miss. Please take the time keep an eye on that, it is worth it when you see it.
 
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Pieces of Me by Carrigan Richards is a book about a girl who loses everything and is sent to figure it all out in a mental institution. As she navigates all the things she is feeling and going through you see her heartbreak and Carrigan's writing makes you just want to hug this poor girl.
Carrigan Richards is a fresh new-ish author who deserves for people to read everything she writes, because she is dynamic and speaks on topics that so many people deal with every single day.
 


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Don't Breathe a Word by Holly Cupala
 I should say that I tend to lean towards book with a story that I can relate to in some way.  So this was right up my ally. This is about a girl who is in a controlling/mental and emotionally abusive relationship. She runs away from home and her life changes forever from there.
I beg you to read this book, it is one of the best books I have ever read and still keep on my bookshelf to this day.
 


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Hold Still by Nina Lacour is a beautifully, sad story. Nina Lacour has always been able to draw me into her books. You can tell she writes from the heart and really puts all of herself into each and every story she tells. I really don't want to go into any detail about this book, I just want you to please go and get this book and spend some real time engrossing yourself in it.
 




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Three Little Words by Ashley Rhodes-Courter is a newly added book to my top 10! I just finished it earlier this month. It is a memoir of Ashley's time spent in foster care. This book will make you angry while also making you cry at the same time. My grandparents from 1960 to 2015 and my parents from 1993 to around 2007 or so were all foster parents, so we saw all kinds of kiddos who had been through everything you could imagine and even plenty you couldn't imagine. Please take time to read this book, because you get to know what a kid was feeling during the time, along with how she describes it as an adult.
 
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Thirteen Reasons Why by Jay Asher has had some controversy lately because of the show that came out that is based on the book. I read this book a few years before the show came out, so I already knew what it was going to look like for the most part. I personally related to this book in many ways, I have never tried or even truly thought about committing suicide, but I have lost people I deeply cared for. But, I do suffer from anxiety and bouts of depression, so I know what it feels like to feel like your entire life is crumbling around you and you are helpless to do anything about it. This book is well-written and shown from a dual point of view. The main character and the girl who has already passed away. Jay Asher nailed the emotions that one feels in this type of situation.

Now, I love many other books... Many... many other books... But, these ones all spoke to me in an important way, that's why they are on this list currently. This list is always subject to change though.

Hope you guys are having a great summer and I have to admit that I can't wait until fall, cause I am over this humid heat! 

Monday, August 7, 2017

Bout of Books 20!

I love the Bout of Books Read-a-Thon! I have been doing it off and on for a few years now and I am grateful I found it. I sometimes can make it thru a good amount of books, but also sometimes I don't even make it through 1, it just depends on what is going on in my life at that moment.

Anyway, so August 21st is the start date for #20! It is a week long and I promise if you are a reader, please check it out!

Here is the link for it: Bout of Books Site - go and sign up!

My current TBR doe the read-a-thon is as follows:

1. Three Little Words by Ashley Rhodes-Courter
2. The Strangler by William Landay
3. Mystic River by Dennis Lehane
4. Blackout Girl by Jennifer Storm

This is subject to change of course, we are still a couple weeks out!

 The Bout of Books read-a-thon is organized by Amanda Shofner and Kelly @ Reading the Paranormal. It is a week long read-a-thon that begins 12:01am Monday, August 21st and runs through Sunday, August 27th in whatever time zone you are in. Bout of Books is low-pressure. There are challenges, giveaways, and a grand prize, but all of these are completely optional. For all Bout of Books 20 information and updates, be sure to visit the Bout of Books blog. - From the Bout of Books team


Saturday, May 20, 2017

Pride 2017: Love is Love

All my life I have known I was different from most of the other girls or at least that’s how it felt. I liked girls and boys alike and to me there wasn’t anything wrong with it. I can’t remember when I knew others didn’t feel the same way and thought it was wrong for someone to like someone else of the same sex but I do remember knowing it and it being hard to hear when someone used words like “faggot” and “lezzy” regarding someone else when they were making fun of them. I was never personally called those names, but so many others around me were and it hurt me deeply that someone would ever want to hurt someone else just because they don’t understand that being a “faggot” or “lezzy” isn’t an adverse thing.

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There are people who hate most, if not all, people in the LGBTQ community - have called them vile names, brutally beaten, savagely raped, and/or ruthlessly killed them. Others have killed themselves for the bullying they have endured by the hand of someone so ignorant or just plain soulless. All these actions are senseless and shouldn’t be happening to anyone - we should be able to love anyone we want to no matter what their gender is. Love is love no matter what form it takes on - as long as both people are consenting adults.

Next month, in June, is Pride month. The LGBTQ community, in many cities, come together to celebrate who they are without limitations. Many people don’t get this luxury any other time of year - they have to hide who they are at work, hide from their landlords, families, bosses, and others who will hate them for who they are for no reason.

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 I went to my first Pride event in June 2006 in Kansas City, Missouri. I was 25 and had only been out for 6 months (I was lucky enough to have a wonderfully supportive family and friend base, others, sadly, aren’t so lucky.) I went with my two female roommates who had been together for a few years and their female best friend. Their friend and I spent the day flirting and laughing together. A week later we were dating. I was brand new to the city - I had been there one week when Pride started. I went worrying I would have an anxiety attack or I would not enjoy myself. But, I truly had the best time I could have ever expected to have. The people were beautiful, colorful, and happy. Kids;
animals; older people; people my age; men; women; transgendered folks, so many wonderful souls all loving being together. The show was amazing, the vendors were fantastic, and the drag queens and kings were on fucking point.


The next year in 2007, I went with a friend and my broken heart from a fresh break-up. My friend and I just relaxed in lawn chairs and people watched while we sipped our Gatorade in the hot sun. It was the best medicine for my aching heart. Pride has been a place where I started something new and mended my heart after that ended. I wouldn’t change my experiences at my first two Prides, I learned so much about who I was by experiencing it through a different set of eyes both times.

I wish the world could be pride month every month and celebrate not only the beautiful and bright LGBTQ community but all people because we are all individuals and should be celebrating just that.

So next month, find a way to a Pride event near you even if you don’t fall into any category within the LGBTQ label, our community is in need of allies always. You might be surprised to find out that you will be surrounded by uplifting and hilarious people who just want to be themselves without restrictions or hate being cast on them.


 No Pants Required