Monday, December 25, 2017

Bout of Books 21 Sign up, TBR, and Progress

Bout of Books

The Bout of Books read-a-thon is organized by Amanda Shofner and Kelly @ Reading the Paranormal. It is a week long read-a-thon that begins 12:01am Monday, January 8th and runs through Sunday, January 14th in whatever time zone you are in. Bout of Books is low-pressure. There are challenges, giveaways, and a grand prize, but all of these are completely optional. For all Bout of Books 21 information and updates, be sure to visit the Bout of Books blog. - From the Bout of Books team.


These are just the books I need to get read - I know I can't get through all of them by any means, but at least I will know what I wanna keep reading after the read-a-thon ends! :)

By the same author:
The Book of Love - Lynn Weingarten
Where Nina Lives - Lynn Weingarten

Memoirs:
In My Skin - Kate Holden
Where am I now - Mara Wilson

Also a good movie:
A Time to Kill - John Grisham
The Catastrophic History of You and Me - Jess Rothenberg

The Jennifers:
Look at Me - Jennifer Egan
Black Out Girl - Jennifer Storm
Bitter End - Jennifer Brown

The last five:
Rebel Belle - Rachel Hawkins
Over The Edge - Meredith Wild
What Alice Forgot - Liane Moriarty
Saving Jane - Hannah Harrington
Neanderthal Seeks Human: A Smart Romance - Penny Reid


Day 1: I ended up starting with the last book on my list: Neanderthal Seeks Human by Penny Reid. So far it's a really good book, I have been wanting to read it since it came out a couple of years ago, I had sadly just never picked it up. I ended yesterday at 116 pages read.

Day 2: I read from 117 - 158, I am loving this book and I hope to finish it soon.

Day 3: I switched to a new book for day 3 (Coming Clean: A Memoir by Kimberly Rae Miller) I read until page 72.

Day 4: I finished up Coming Clean pages 73 - 257. Such a great book, I listened to Kimberly Rae Miller read it while I read it, it was really a great way to enjoy a book! I started on Left Drowning by Jessica Park reading and listening to it also. Reading until page 12. I had to work and do homework, so I had to go adult for a while.

Day 4 Challenge:
Audiobook narrator: Kimberly Rae Miller
Illustrator: Travis
Series: The Breathing Series by Rebecca Donovan
Bookish blog: Katie's Book Blog
Vlogger: Christopher Allen
Favorite library: The one in my hometown that is luckily only 30 miles from where I live now.

Day 5: I only had enough time to read pages 13 - 33. I am glad I got at least a little read though.

Day 6: I ended up having no time to read sadly! Work stuff, ugh!

Day 7: Spent the day with family, so no reading time yet again.

I read a total of 433 pages. I only finished 1 whole book but I read from 3 different books.

Sunday, December 24, 2017

NPR Interview with Planner Sticker shop Owner

Haley Del Plato: Interview Questions with No Pants Required

      Today, Haley Del Plato; the creator of Peel and Heal Studio, joins us. I am so excited to get to interview her; she is so kind, creative and also gives functional planner stickers a new meaning. Her planner stickers are driven more towards mental, emotional, and physical health. From Therapy schedules to prescription pick up to motivational sayings – her stickers are made to help you to remember important things that most people tend to put off because they forget to do it with their busy lives. We are talking to her about herself, her work, and also maybe some tips on how to get started in a sticker shop. So, let’s get into it!

NPR: Hi Haley! Tell everyone a bit about yourself:

How old are you? 25 years old.

Where do you call home? An apartment in Morristown, New Jersey!

Hobbies? Planning (of course!), hand lettering, yoga, writing, Pinterest crafts, drinking wine.

Pets? Not currently. My only pet was a Beta fish named Sloopy…but I forgot to feed him all the time so he died… I’m obviously not ready for kids haha!!

Favorites Song? Currently, “Female” by Keith Urban – I love country music!

Book? Handle with Care by Jodi Picoult 

Animal? PIGS! I looooove them!

Apple or PC? I currently use a PC at home. I was introduced recently to Apple computers at work, though, and I might be hooked…

Netflix or Hulu? Netflix! Though I don’t watch much TV honestly.

Dogs or Cats? I’m a dog lover!

Anything else? I am a firm believer that life is too short for boring socks! I don’t own any plain white or black socks!

NPR: Where did the idea come from to start your own shop?
HDP: I got into the planning community somewhat recently. For me, decorative planning is so calming – like a form of art therapy! One day, I was searching for stickers to mark my therapy sessions. I was frustrated because I couldn’t find any cute ones on Etsy that had a space to write in my appointment time. So I set out on a mission to create my own stickers! Soon after, I decided I wanted to share those creations with the world via Peel & Heal Studio!

NPR: How did you come up with the name for your shop?
HDP: Lots of people have asked me about the name of my shop. I suffer from severe anxiety and depression. Planning with stickers is so therapeutic for me, and has been a wonderful healthy coping skill. I knew I wanted to tie into my shop name that idea of recovery and healing, plus I wanted it to be a catchy name that people would remember! I thought of Peel & Heal Studio one night as I was falling asleep!
NPR: How did the concept of mental, emotional, and physical health come to be for your stickers?
HDP: This may be a bit of a long answer, so stick with me! In 2012, I finally entered treatment after years of suffering from a life-threatening eating disorder. My parents took me out of school (I was at Colgate University getting my degrees in Spanish and Educational Studies). Although I hated to even admit my behaviors were a problem at first, I ended up spending January through August in intensive treatment. Taking a medical leave from college was the best decision my parents could have made for me. It kick-started a much-needed focus on self-care in my own life. After treatment, I returned to college to study abroad in Spain. After a significant eating disorder relapse and consequent hospitalization, I finally got the rude awakening that this illness would KILL me if I didn’t start fighting back. My life began to revolve around treatment: therapy sessions, journaling, yoga, nutrition appointments, psychiatric care, etc. I slowly re-learned what “normal” eating meant. I learned (and am still figuring out some days) how to love myself, and what that truly means. It’s been a bumpy and tear-filled journey, but I wouldn’t have it any other way. I’m now a HUGE advocate for mental health. Because I dealt with so many stigmas surrounding my eating disorder, depression, anxiety, and self-harm, I made it my mission to FIGHT those stigmas by normalizing conversations about mental health. I worked for several years with the National Eating Disorders Association as a volunteer fundraising walk coordinator. Peel & Heal is the next step in my venture to help people prioritize their mental and physical well-being!

NPR: What steps did you take to start your own shop?
HDP: I started with research—lots and lots of research. I read blogs and online articles, watched YouTube videos, and read books about starting up small businesses and running Etsy shops. I wanted to make sure that before I opened my virtual shop doors, I was well-versed in the industry terminology, norms, and what to expect. Next, I designed. For hours each evening, I doodled. Half of my sketches ended up in the garbage until I finally realized that I needed to ditch the perfectionistic mindset! I settled on my first design and then set out to find the quality materials I wanted to use (everything from sticker paper to packaging). I edited and revamped my logo several times, using feedback from family and friends. I also ordered LOTS of stickers from a variety of shops so that I could see what other shops were excelling in. I took note of packaging styles, shipping times, personal touches, and more to develop my own “brand”. The final step was marketing, which I primarily did on Instagram. Once I had a good following, I sent out samplers to a bunch of people to get feedback on my designs and quality. From there, I set an opening date and starting stocking my shop!

NPR: What would have you done differently if you could start over?
HDP: If I could do this whole thing over, I would set aside my perfectionism at the beginning. For a while, I was too caught up in comparing my designs and skills to those of other shop owners. It really hindered my creative process and made me second-guess my intentions in opening up this shop. Did I really have any business opening up a sticker shop with no professional art training? I slowly gained confidence in the mission of Peel & Heal Studio and saw myself as CAPABLE and TALENTED. Self-confidence is key!

NPR: How do you come up with designs and product ideas?
HDP: I try to think back to my days in treatment: I would have LOVED to have had cute stickers for my journal or planner that would make me smile and simultaneously help me make progress in recovery. So a lot of my inspiration comes from what would have been useful to me in those dark days. The other portion of my brainstorming comes from my wonderful Facebook group! It’s a wonderful space where I can hear customers’ suggestions, ideas, hopes, etc. It’s really interesting to see what OTHER people would find helpful…because at the end of the day, everyone’s mental health story and struggle are different. It’s important to me that I base my designs off of a wide variety of needs/ideas so that my stickers are relatable to a wide audience.


NPR: What is your typical creation process?
HDP: I start with pencil on paper. Eventually, those doodles make their way into Adobe Illustrator, where I can edit, add color, and fine-tune my designs. This is the longest part of the process because I’m still a newbie with Adobe! There are so many cool functions within that program…I’m sure I don’t even know half of them! So I’m constantly learning and improving my art. Once I’m happy with my design, I use a Silhouette machine and the corresponding software to set up, print, and cut my sticker sheets!

NPR: Do you think you will be sticking with Etsy for the long run or will you get a website
at some point?
HDP: It’s hard to say at this point. For now, Etsy completely meets my needs! Should Peel & Heal Studio continue to grow, though, it might be wise to branch into my own
website where I can totally customize things.

NPR: Is this your full-time career? Do you want to do this for many years to come?
HDP: I currently work fulltime at a translation company actually, as a Spanish translator and quality assurance proofreader. Peel & Heal Studio is totally for fun at this point, so I do that after work or on the weekends! I’d LOVE to see my shop succeed for years to come. I’ll do it as long as there’s a demand for my stickers because I truly do enjoy the whole process! As long as I’m not compromising my mental health in running this shop, I don’t see a reason that I would stop!

NPR: Have you thought about following the monthly/weekly kit trend?
HDP: I have considered it. My one “issue” with kits, though, is that they tend to somewhat limit my creativity. Maybe that’s just me! One of the ideas behind my Etsy shop is that a person can turn any ol’ planner into a functional wellness/health tracker. Because of that mindset, I like to provide stickers that can be integrated into ANY layout—without worrying about customers having to buy an expensive, top-of-the-line planner.

NPR: Have you thought about expanding to other products?
HDP: That’s definitely crossed my mind! I’m a huge fan of washi tape and sticky notes, so I think it would be awesome to branch into those eventually. For the time being, though, I want to focus on building up my “library” of sticker designs.

NPR: Anything new products or sales coming up?
HDP: I have a couple of new products in the works: monthly mood trackers where you can color in a section per day to track your mood over time (think bujo-style designs!) as well as 30-day challenges! The first set of challenge stickers will be “30 days of self-care”. These are being designed as we speak, and are aimed to help people create healthy habits that last over time. It’s a fun way to challenge yourself each month! We’ll also be having a “Holiday Healing” sale, which will last from December 24th through December 27th. There will be a different deal going on each day!

NPR: Is the holiday season a busy time for your shop?
HDP: This is the first holiday season that Peel & Heal Studio has been open, and I’m busier than I ever imagined! It’s so exciting!

NPR: Have you thought about starting a YouTube channel for your shop?
HDP: I think that would be awesome. I am, however, a little camera shy (I HATE the sound of my own voice on video!!!) so it would take some practice. I’m trying to put some occasional videos in my Instagram story, though! Baby steps!

NPR: Do you have a specified work area? Have you gotten to make it your own?
HDP: Ugh, I dream of a specified work area. Because I’m in an apartment, I don’t have a designated office quite yet. Luckily, my roommate is amazingly tolerant and doesn’t mind when my shop supplies are sprawled all over the living room!!
NPR: What type of music/videos/movies/tv shows do you watch/listen to while you are creating?
HDP: I love listening to classical music when I’m doodling and drawing. I played the clarinet in an orchestra all through college, so I have a definite soft spot for classical music. It inspires me. While I’m packaging up orders, though, I always end up listening to something upbeat... It keeps me moving and keeps me at a steady pace!

NPR: What types of drinks/snacks do you enjoy while you are creating?
HDP: Coffee, coffee, coffee. Or Diet Peach Snapple! As far as snacks, I’m a huuuge sucker for cheese doodles (my apologies in advance if there’s ever an orange smudge on your invoice) or popcorn.

NPR: Do you have any tips for others looking to break into their own sticker shop?
HDP: Don't get discouraged too easily!! There’s a definite learning curve to some of the software and Silhouette machines. I try to remind myself that the expert in anything was once a beginner. There’s no shame in asking questions, learning from others, and reaching out for help. The planner community is especially welcoming and supportive! Another thing to remember? One person’s beauty doesn’t detract from your own. That is to say, just because there are a million beautiful stickers out there doesn’t mean that you don’t have something to add to the planner sticker world! Believe in your unique abilities!


Thank you for joining us today, Haley! We look forward to more wonderful planner stickers and maybe other products from you in the future!
If you would like to check out her stickers, please go check her out on Etsy at Peel and Heal Studio
Check out her Facebook Group
And lastly her Instagram: @peelandheal_planning

Sunday, December 10, 2017

5 Holiday Movies I Love


I love holiday movies. I might not be huge into Christmas itself, but I do love the movies that come from the season. There is something magical about the way winter and the holidays are depicted in movies. So I wanted to share 5 of my favorites just in case you might not have seen some or even all of them. So, grab a hot apple cider, some Christmas cookies, and a warm blanket to wrap up in while you are relaxing on your couch. Settle in and enjoy!

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The Family Stone is probably my favorite on this list if I'm being honest. The sadness of the overall story is given the back burner to the humor and family time. I love the characters and the actors/actresses that were chosen. They did this movie very well and no matter how many times I have watched it (probably close to 100+) I still laugh and cry at all the same parts. Diane Keaton and Craig T. Nelson are the parents every adult child wishes they had and also didn't have. The other characters really do broach on personalities that most kids in families have. The snotty little sister, the laid-back brother, the successful brother, the sister who got married and had kids first, and the gay brother in an interracial relationship. They have some drama but by the end of Christmas day, everything seems to be coming together.

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I mean yeah they can be cheesy but I love how they are mostly light-hearted and sweet. I have watched many over the years and I just can't stop myself mostly all year 'round and it just intensifies at Christmas time. They pick characters that sometimes can be rather relateable and storylines that although a bit over the top, are similar to things we have all been through at some point. They are driven more towards finding and keeping love during the holiday season than anything else, but that's ok, a good Christmas love story isn't so bad most of the time. Netflix has some of the movies and I do believe that Hulu carries some too.

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The Holiday is a sweet and funny movie with some pretty big names in it. Heartbroken and lonely, two women switch houses for the holiday - one living in L.A. and other in England. They meet men who are family or friends to the other woman and end up falling for them. Jack Black, Jude Law, Cameron Diaz and Kate Winslet are an amazing cast. There are some really funny times and also as always really sad times throughout this movie for sure. They really put their best foot forward with this movie. If you are looking for a feel-good movie that gives you all the emotions, this is a good choice for the holiday season. So, watch it soon!

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This movie follows different people during the Christmas season, all going through things and trying to navigate life in general. Part funny, part sweet, part love, part feel-good this movie kind of has a little bit for everyone (well maybe not EVERYBODY, but people who don't mind a good rom-com). I love how all of that is tied into the holiday season with the beautiful snow falling down around people in some scenes. I recommend this movie for sure.


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Serendipity is a movie that I have heard a lot of bad reviews about, but I have no clue what they are talking about, I adore this movie. It is such a cute little story about people meeting by chance and falling in love. I have always been a fan of John Cusack's almost awkward appeal - it humanizes him and plays well in the characters he chooses to play. Kate Beckinsale is as always a beautiful actress and I don't just mean the way she looks. She has this almost whimsicalness about her and her smile is infectious. They really bring so much to this movie and are really great together too! Find a way to check out this movie if you haven't already. It is really a feel-good movie and might even help you find the magic in love again. 


I hope you are able to find something that you haven't seen before so you get to discover something new! Please leave me a comment and let me know which you have seen or will be watching! I would love to hear from you! 

Sunday, December 3, 2017

What the Holidays Mean to Me

The holidays used to mean so much to me, it was suppose to be this almost magical time of year where everything is beautiful and everyone is nice to one another and as I became an adult it took me a long time to realize that I had far more hope that it would be a magical holiday season than I needed to because no one in my family was including me in their holiday plans. I had to learn to enjoy this time of year alone-expectations for someone else's actions is never something we should be doing. We can only fulfill our expectations of ourselves, as long as we aren't expecting too much of ourselves either.
The holidays are a time to reflect on what you're grateful for and what is to come and if you believe in God then what he has given to your life. It's a time to celebrate and enjoy dressing up for holiday parties, church, and any other time you want, just because you can. Celebrate you! Enjoy the chill in the air, the comfortable clothes, and the bright, shiny everything everywhere. Celebrate with the people you love - whether that be your family or friends. Family isn't always the people you were born to - it is the people you choose to include in the important and not so important parts of your life - the people who love you unconditionally and the people who openly welcome you into their worlds. Celebrate the holidays with people who make you happy and the best version of yourself. Never spend time with people who make you feel like less than who you are. Enjoy the holidays with yourself if you have no one else to be with. There is nothing at all wrong with being alone, you just have to work on loving yourself so that you can enjoy your own company. Never let being alone bring you down. Make the holidays good for yourself.

Friday, December 1, 2017

Days 18-30: NaNoWriMo 2017

Day 18: I wrote 2,966 words bringing my total up to 25,210 words in total.
Day 19: I wrote 1,528 words bringing my total up to 26,738 words.
Day 20: I was sadly busy all day so I wasn't able to get any words written.
Day 21: I pulled off 3,283 words today! This brought my total word count to 30,0021.
Day 22: In preparation for Thanksgiving, I just didn't have time to get any words down.
Day 23: During the day I had a bit of time so I was about to get 1,245 words! Which give me a grand total of 31,266 words.
Day 24: I was only able to get about 468 words down. Hopping my total up to 31,734.
Day 25: I wasn't feeling the best so I wasn't able to get any words down.
Day 26: I only ended up getting 641 words down giving me a total of 32,375 words.
Day 27: I got 344 words down. Giving me a total of 32,719 words.
Day 28 - 30: I didn't get any words down, one of my doggies had to have surgery so I was putting my focus on that. He's doing great now, no worries!

So, I did fall short of the 50,000-word goal. But, I got to 32,719 words which for my first NaNoWriMo I'd say is pretty good! I am proud of myself for making a great effort and really putting as much of myself into it as possible. I will keep writing and hopefully finish off my memoir at some point in the near future!

Next year I will be entering again and maybe with a new book even! :)